Jun 19, 2012

A Walk To Remember

Little unstable steps in black Bata Ballerina or Naughty Boy shoes, with hand-kerchiefs folded into wedges and pinned on the chest; little hearts make their first trip across the length of road that will become part and parcel of their lives. That is how the first day of school was like for most of us who grew up in the quaint little town of pines, Shillong.

Most of the major schools in Shillong are on the stretch of road between the bus-stops of Dhankheti and Beat House. St Peter's, Loreto, St. Anthony's, St. Edmunds, St. Mary's and St.Margaret’s are all almost adjacent to each other, separated only by the arterial roads to get to them. Three of these schools are boys' schools and the other three are girls' schools and all but one is not named after a patron saint of the same gender as students it admits. (Here is an exercise in data sufficiency for you …go figure!). So the common ground where these young generations of Shillong meet is on this road. This is also the stretch of road that connects to several major residential areas. Hence, for the students of these schools, this is the road they traverse daily for at least fourteen years of their lives, from kindergarten to high school. Barely 1.5km in stretch , this road remains no more just a road, but a throbbing repository of countless memories- friendly banter, drenching rain and a breeding ground for Shillong's innocent romances.



Don Bosco Square, Shillong


At my school, we would be counting minutes until 2.55 pm, soon after lunch was over. This is when our school got over for the day. As soon as the bell rang, we would rush out after reciting aloud a prayer that had become more a habit than any reflective monologue with God. I say so because we would say the part to thank the teacher and wish her a good afternoon even if there was no teacher in the class-roomJ.  In the early years, the star attraction was the baby cone ice-cream or the colored water-ice. But as we grew, palates changed and new interests developed. Most of my friends flocked to the Aloo-waala (vendor selling boiled potato slices mixed with spices and tamarind water) and then along the road we would almost always stop at a small card shop that sold gift items and among them some small fluorescent greeting cards. These cards directed at us gen-X-ers usually had cartoons with quotes like - 'You are the best thing that ever happened to me'. And since we had no one else to give them to, we would exchange among ourselves. There were so many yet none!

The most daring guy I met came right to my doorstep, to confess those three special words. I know he introduced himself but in the sheer disbelief that he had actually dared to follow me home, I didn't hear what he said. Being my usual (arrogant) self, I declined even a friendship he was trying to bargain. I never saw him again. He will remain as Mr. X, that was the name my friends and I had given him, ever since we saw him following me around. On the other extreme, was the one who silently waited for years on end, somewhere along the way. Often invisible to me, he parked his bike strategically to make sure I knew he was there. He never came and spoke a single word and I know he had reasons for it, but I will leave them unwritten. I heard he now rests in silence underneath the pines, invisible to all but one.  Between these extremes there were many others, like the one we called NEHU because we always saw him waiting at the NEHU (North-Eastern Hill Univ.) bus-stand or the one who was confused about whether he liked my friend or me..Haha!

These were my stories but all of my friends and acquaintances had similar ones. I wonder if anyone who walked that road as a teenager failed to find love in one form or another. But as destiny has it, most of these stories ended almost simultaneously with teenage. The quest for higher studies, takes most youngsters out of Shillong's meandering lanes into the highways of bigger cities to the point of no return. It is this fire in the belly that makes the youngsters follow their heads and silence their hearts; the hearts that start throbbing all over again in the same way, after years have passed, when the rains hit their windows and sweep them on a trip, down memory lane.

18 comments:

  1. Thanks everyone for reading and liking my post - and the F-Likes, comments and messages :)

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  2. Nice blog. Ok if I recommend this piece for publishing in The Shillong Times this Sunday? The piece will be credited to you as US-based risk management analyst

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    1. Thanks! My parents were glad to read the piece in their local paper and get a few phone calls from friends.

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  3. Well this story really reveals something which occurred to me in my teenage. I use to follow someone after my school hours. I eagerly waited for the school bell to ring and then rush out of the school with two of my good friends and then waited silently amongst the masses. As soon as we saw them approaching the road my heart would start beating very heavily. I would then start following her to their homes. This phenomenon continued for many years, and then suddenly one day I gathered some courage to speak and start a new friendship with her, but as soon as I approached her, she got furious, noticing that she was not happy for the way I approached her I said, "SORRY". I thought that she would calm down, but my bad luck it did not, and she said, " Why should you be sorry for?, I don't even know you." And she left. I waited for sometime in shock and despair and started thinking what went wrong?
    Till date I really think what really went wrong that day....

    Anyways you have a great potential as a writer, so keep up the good work.

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    1. Thank-you!Nice to hear your story.I think the girl just didn't know how to react or what to say. Girls pretend to be angry just like that at that age, while they are enjoying the attention even though they may not admit it even to themselves. That's the way it is in Shillong.

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  4. Well, here I am Mallika. Thank you for pointing me towards your blog - keep writing and enjoying your writing! Wish you much joy with ink-smeared fingers in 2013 :)

    Manreet

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  5. Every works are true...loved reading it...also remember the tutions DPC DB Deb Roy etc.....

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    1. Thanks!!!...Oh yes how did I forget the tutions...next time :-)

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    2. This article took me back to school days...u know tutions were the best breeding grounds for romances...then there were two most beautiful girls for whom every alternate guy would fall for from the 94 batch...one of them ofcourse you..and the other was Rupsha.....time really flies i still long for those innocent days...innocent love...life which was never materialistic...the noise created by the winds touching the pine trees...the dew drops concerted to a sheet of white icing during winter...collecting morning water in queue...how can we forget those moments of shillong....

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  6. Fond memories

    Its morning again and we are ready to go to school...A two rupee for pocket money we set out to school...its a walk from laitumukhrah to Don Bosco square...As usual i dont carry umbrellas as i have lost many in school...so here again we gather at the auditorium saying morning prayers... Our Father...the attendace begins and classes start...we desperately wait for 15 mins toilet break...then the lunch break...at the lunch time its chow chow or roti or pulao...now all set to take the cricketing pitch in the nearby ground....sometimes when we dont get pitch ..we head out to steal fruits in the lacchumere area..During annuals sports we all gather in the staium and wow its so good to see girls from Loreto St marys join the event...edmundians are considered good boys and Anthonian's bad boys...so we are the bad boys...

    Sometimes it rains for more than three days continuously....and yes where on earth u get a holiday because of rain...we are happy as usual...in a rainy day we make plans to hire video cassettes...ooo how happy we were to wath movies at time...then there were holidays due to clashes between tribal & non tribal and curfew imposed ....and yes we are back to cricket...

    Walk to PB through Don Bosco St Anthonys college wards lake and finally to Glorys Plaza are some memories that will remain...

    Fianlly its matric time....and all the memories are slowly coming to an end...at the same time there is joy that we can bunk classes in college but life seems to get tougher and tougher...and remaining journey can never can have a any such wondeful memories as that of schooling....years after we unite together in orkut, FB its a happy moment but everthing has turned to virtualy reality...

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  7. Nice to get another view ,especially the stealing fruits during lunch!

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  8. Do you still visit shillong when you visit India.....

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    1. Yes I do visit Shillong...and try to take some solitary walks.

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  10. I remember your house in Lummawrie...in long skirts and an umbrella nad here you are off to school....do write more about shillong i love reading it....

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